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Help .I want to do bad things. Psychiatrist and therapists - people with actual knowledge only please.?
Okay so, I am a 19 year old male. I am very intelligent, successful and accepted in community.The only problem is, I don't give a fuck about all that I have had kinda bad childhood with some family trauma but they made it all " look good" by saying " oh you have everything you need, you can buy things, you can go places, we provide for you" , what I thought Fuck that, I want normal life. Anyway, I realise this happens and much worse so I'm not here to whine. I honestly do not give a fuck about almost anything, except for my impulses off course on which I will elaborate later on. Back to my not caring. I do not understand people, never did. I used to be awkward and didn't know how to socialise but I learned, so know everyone thinks how great I am. Nothing really interests me as far as normal things people do go. I don't want friends really, I like to be alone, but I do have a big ego so those dumb little assholes admiring me for something feels good. I don't want a gf either and I'm not that much interested in sex. I just hate people for how stupid they are, I hate almost everyone but it's not blind hate, I understand things I simply don't think most people deserve to breathe, to live. Onto my impulses and my actualy problem now. I want to do bad things When I was a kid it was just torturing cats it is just interesting to see them trying to run away, then come back to me when I offer them nice food. stupid creatures and insects. I love to experiment. Now I want to do all kind of bad stuff. I used to get in a lot f fights but had to stop when I turned 18, I miss that, I need that. It's my vent at least a bit. I want to do everything that shouldn't be done. Obviously I don't give a fuck about the law, I hate laws and rules. I judge a hole lot, as seen. Now the thing is, I keep having more and more trouble controlling myself, I want to kill someone, and I will, although I don't want to when rationalizing it because it would get me into trouble, but I really need to. I have to do something bad, it's like an addiction even though I didn't really get a chance to get addicted. Needless to say it is making my " normal" life harder every day and I don't think I'll be able to control it any more. I have spoken to psychs and shrinks but I almost always lied and they even thought I'm such a great person, how sweet. SO, please give me opinion that might help. WARNING, all of you dumbasses who leave a 3 5 word useless answers, do not bother, I hate you, I do not want your dumb answers and I really do not understand why do you feel the need to write them, I do not want your pathetic < 50 IQ opinion, so go to hell in advance.
What will my therapist do if I just stay silent, and refuse to speak?
I'm 15. I've been bounced around therapists and hospitals since I was 11. I've hated ALL my therapist. Everyone tell me that I just " can't handle the truth they tell me about myself" . They're honestly all SO rude and insensitive. I gave it my all and opened up to this last therapist. She uses everything I've told her to relate to my why I'm 'incredibly unstable, immature, and not be trusted'. We made a deal that if I stopped cutting she wouldn't tell my dad. I stopped. She called my dad anyway. I was very angry the next session and said I didn't have anything to say to her. She told me I was being incredibly immature. I simply walked out of the office so I would not burst out angrily, and say something I'd regret. She told my father I was unstable and recommended I come twice a week.FINALLY my parents are looking for a new therapist, hopefully a male one, who is actually nice and respects me. However, I'm being forced to go to therapy with this awful woman again tomorrow. What will she do if I simply do not say a single word to her, just sit silently?I'm honestly not immature. But I do have anger issues. I know if I start to talk and she gets on my nerves, I'll lash out and probably be hospitalized. If I'm quiet to begin with I'm much better at controlling my temper. Don't judge me, you don't know me....I'm a boy. I'm not spoiled, or " in charge of the household" . Seriously, what have I said to make you think that?
I want to see a therapist, but my mom doesn't believe I need one?
I have a bad case of anxiety, and it pretty much controls my life and prevents me from living it to the fullest. I also have a very low self esteem and I'm constantly judging myself and feeling as if I'm not worthy of friends. Having no social life or friends I can talk to really is a big root to my problems. I lost all my friends in the 10th grade because they were the true definition of mean girls, but I only saw it after when I was all alone and no one else wanted to be my friend because they thought I was just like them. I'm in my first year of college and I just feel sad all the time. Sure, I have some happy moments, but a lot of the time I criticize myself and cry because I think of what others must think of me. I don't want to be this person, I want to be happy, but I can't do it on my own, I feel I'm too far in. I finally told my mom a couple weeks ago, but she told me that all my problems were normal and brushed them off. On friday I had a really rough day and I started crying in public because my friend I was supposed to meet up with ended up bailing last minute... I get really sensitive on things like that because of my lack of friends and social life and I feel every time I try and change it, it never works out. So I started looking up local therapists online, and I found one that sounded really impressive. I showed my mom and the first thing she said is " you don't need that. you're not that bad. you don't have those feelings" but I do.. how can she not see that? I feel like its so obvious that I've been feeling off. I get angry too easily, I get defeated too easily, I'm happy but its not a constant. This is why I need a therapist... how can I talk about my problems with someone like her who just doesn't understand what it's like? I love her but I need someone with no attachments.I'm actually still seventeen, so am I still old enough? Even if I am though, it would really mean a lot to have her support. Does it cost money to see a therapist?
How appropriate or inappropriate is it to give your therapist a gift?
I have been seeing a therapist for over a year now. I have learned that good therapists therapists whom actually care, aren't always to be found, and so I promised myself that in the future I would do my best to express my gratitude to those who display a heart, since most in this world do not.I bought a gift for my therapist just two hours ago, only to cancel the order just now. Why? Well, there were two reasons essentially. The first is that my mother had advised me not to personalize such a relationship, and when doing some research on Google concerning this matter, I had learned that mental health practitioners are often advised not to accept gifts from patients while in medical school training, though in that same article the psychiatrist whom addressed this debate had stated that he accepts gifts in spite of what he was taught in college in his private practice because it felt wrong to do otherwise.I've given my therapist flowers and a book, which contained images of the breath taking Desert Botanical Garden in Phoenix, as well as a few cards in the past to express my gratitude.It's not as though I have a physical attraction to my therapist. I think she's attractive, but I'm a gay man. I'm gay but I still act, walk, and talk like a man She knows this, and for that reason I felt less concerned about her thinking I was blurring the lines, but I canceled the order because even though a part of me felt as though God put it on my heart to purchase this for her something also told me it was the wrong thing to do do.I would really like to get opinions concerning this situation from mental health practitioners, but also ordinary people like myself outside of the behavioral health field as well.Thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and for sharing your perspective.By the way, to those that are interested, and I know most aren't , ... This is what I was going to buy her christianbook.com mother pierced wings message angel pd 074501X?item code WW& netp id 814113& event ESRCG& view detailsThe angel is given the title of Mother, but because I had bought this as a small part of my Mom's Christmas gift in December, I know it doesn't have the word Mother inscribed on it any where, which is why I thought it would be appropriate.
Is a therapist allowed to hand his patient over to another therapist if the patient doesn't reach his/her?
goals? The goals are now being put in place 3 1 2 years into treatment, when there was no reason they could have happened before.Also, if a patient feels uncomfortable with his her theraist and or psychiatrist can they request a referral for new and different practicioners.Also, if there are 4 therapists in the same office can a patient request or be put with a different therapist than the one they're with from the same office.
I just had a session with my therapist and he was proposing a new route to take with my therapy.?
He suggested making goals to work on and putting them down in a treatment plan. I have been with him for 3 1 2 years doing " talk" therapy, even though all along I was expressing frustration at not having any goals to work on the way I had at my previous therapist's. Just earlier I told him I wanted to stay with his office because I get my services for free because I have Medicare and I am indignant and I wouldn't be able to afford another therapist. The thing that got me was he said if I didn't reach my goals he was going to have to give me over to another therapist, as if he wasn't listening to me and it put pressure on me to achieve my goals. Basically, I took this as a threat and I let him know in an email, a couple days later, that I felt he had threatened me and that therapists can't threaten their clients. I asked him to reply with a good reason for doing this and now, I haven't heard from him for 3 days. Not even a reply to say we will discuss this in our next session which is in 2 weeks.What should I do and what do you think I should expect from him?
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